Book Review: 'The Seven Pearls of Financial Wisdom: A Woman's Guide to Enjoying Wealth and Power'
By Tara-Nicholle Nelson
Book Review Title: "
The Seven Pearls of Financial Wisdom: A Woman's Guide to Enjoying Wealth and Power"
Author: Carol Pepper and Camilla Webster
Publisher: St. Martin's Press, 2012; 352 pages; $25.99
A
number of notable personal finance experts have made attempts to share
their knowledge, insights and experiences on money matters with
women-friendly money books and courses. However, many of these are
relatively narrowly focused on subjects like budgeting, investing,
getting out of debt, real estate, or building a career or business.
Now
there's a new entree into this genre by former Rockefeller money
manager Carol Pepper and Forbes journalist Camilla Webster: "The Seven
Pearls of Financial Wisdom: A Woman's guide to Enjoying Wealth and
Power."
I read a lot of finance, self-help and other books from
similar genres, and spend much of my time exploring and creating
multimedia resources in the same areas. Against that backdrop, "Seven
Pearls" at first glance came off as overly simple, and lacking, mmm,
pizzazz. What you won't find in this book is a bunch of charts and
graphs and links and bullets and short-attention-span gimmicks or
cutesy phrases and acronyms. The paragraphs can run long, and the voice
is less girlfriend-ey and more straight shooter.
What you will
find in "Seven Pearls," however, is 300 pages of straightforward,
substantive, visionary, step-by-step guidelines for creating a truly
prosperous life, including clear advice for managing your money,
business, career, family and romantic relationships, and professional
advisers toward that end.
Pepper and Webster don't coddle or
infantilize readers, nor do they assume that the average reader is
mired in financial desperation or struggle just to believe they deserve
to flourish. In fact, many women may not be emotionally ready to
receive and execute on the advice it contains. Some will need to take a
course like Conscious Bookkeeping or work through a book like Karen
McCall's "Financial Recovery" or Julia Cameron's "The Prosperous Heart"
before they can truly appreciate and act on the simple but serious
wisdom contained in "Pearls."
Pearls provides Pepper and
Webster's opinionated, yet ego-free, guidance on a wide-ranging, but
interconnected, set of topics including:
- developing a set of investment guidelines for your portfolio.
- starting and managing a business.
- finding, vetting and selecting the right spouse.
- raising wise children.
- managing your wellness with DNA testing.
What
I know from working with many women who want to use real estate to
build their net worth and family futures is that what causes some to
hesitate to take responsibility for growing their finances is the fear
of the unknown territory of prosperity -- the fear that they will fail
on the nuts and bolts of managing the more complex taxes, legal
structures, adviser teams, business plans, financial statements and
such that they might face if they do find financial success.
"Seven
Pearls" neatly obliterates such fears and concerns, providing a
nuts-and-bolts outline and action plan for women who do earn a good
income -- and those who plan to in the future.
Pepper and Webster
provide hundreds of pearls of financial wisdom in seven areas of their
lives, carving out a vision for a prosperous life by doing some
touching, some deep dives and lots of clear, actionable recommendations
in the areas of:
1.
Wealth building: business, career,
investments and retirement planning, including how to manage your own
emotions to avoid common (and costly) business, tax and investment
mistakes, and select and manage your team of advisers.
2.
Romance and marriage:
managing the costs incurred while dating; financial red flags that
prospective mates might raise; and how to handle the financial
negotiations and disclosures that are necessary to minimize the
too-common financial causes of marital strife.
3.
Power:
In this section, the authors coach women around many of the powerless
beliefs and behaviors that happen so often even among educated career
women -- like refusing to speak up for oneself or failing to -- and
direct them to the image, social media and organizational tools for
building and deploying their own powerful, personal brands, including
everything from Twitter to seats on corporate boards.
Motherhood,
crisis and loss, retirement and legacy building are also given
intensive treatment in "Seven Pearls." For reader-friendliness, each
chapter starts off with a set of questions that surface the problems
that will be addressed within.
Many women now make more money
than their husbands or prospective mates, yet many of these same women
lack more than a basic understanding of financial tools. "Seven Pearls"
is the first women's finance book I've seen that is tailored to take
readers far beyond money crises and beyond the basics (though it does
offer some crisis guidance and much advice for avoiding crises in the
first place).
Rather, the authors effectively usher readers into
a life season of wisely, assertively and knowledgeably using an
advanced set of tools for managing their prosperity, their
relationships and their futures, without fear, intimidation or
unnecessary complexities.
In "Seven Pearls," Pepper and Webster
offer successful women the logistics and structure on which they can
construct a fully prosperous life, minus the fluff.
Tara-Nicholle
Nelson is author of "The Savvy Woman's Homebuying Handbook" and
"Trillion Dollar Women: Use Your Power to Make Buying and Remodeling
Decisions." Tara is also the Consumer Ambassador and Educator for real
estate listings search site Trulia.com.